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  • Kroshka2007
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    Natasa, with your set of language skills there must be many opportunities to do something useful. Finding a job might not be easy, but there are lots of activities available, that you can join. If you mentioned some of your interests, I am sure you through this forum can get a lot of hints. Where about do you live in Jakarta.

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  • natasa2012
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    @vania i think you are the first person that i "talk" this week, exept my husbant... Thank you so much

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  • vania~
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    i feel you @natasa2012, my mom often tell me the same thing
    maybe you can find a job or join a cooking/yoga class something like that, so you can meet new people

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  • natasa2012
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    Originally posted by Happyman View Post
    That's sad. I will go home and see my wife. Sometimes we forget (I forget) what it is like to be the one waiting.
    Belive me it's awful... I leave everything (job,family,friends) and come here with him and now i'm 27 years old women without social life,job...

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  • natasa2012
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    Originally posted by natasa2012 View Post
    I'm here with my housbant, he works every day and during the day i'm alone... We live in a beautiful building with swimming pool, gym etc... And i can't go on pool or in gym every day... I need to do something usefull to be happy..for exp. I need to find a job...
    Sorry *husband*

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  • Happyman
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    Originally posted by natasa2012 View Post
    I'm here with my housbant, he works every day and during the day i'm alone... We live in a beautiful building with swimming pool, gym etc... And i can't go on pool or in gym every day... I need to do something usefull to be happy..for exp. I need to find a job...
    That's sad. I will go home and see my wife. Sometimes we forget (I forget) what it is like to be the one waiting.

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  • natasa2012
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    Originally posted by natasa2012 View Post
    I'm here with my housbant, he works every day and during the day i'm alone... We live in a beautiful building with swimming pool, gym etc... And i can't go on pool or in gym every day... I need to do something usefull to be happy..for exp. I need to find a job...
    Sorry *husband*

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  • natasa2012
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    I'm here with my housbant, he works every day and during the day i'm alone... We live in a beautiful building with swimming pool, gym etc... And i can't go on pool or in gym every day... I need to do something usefull to be happy..for exp. I need to find a job...

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  • vania~
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    Originally posted by natasa2012 View Post
    I don't have any friends here and still don't work, so for me every day is the same...boring ....
    how come? at least you can go out make some friends or do something so the day wont be boring?

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  • natasa2012
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    Originally posted by vania~ View Post
    why boring? weekend is coming!!
    I don't have any friends here and still don't work, so for me every day is the same...boring ....

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  • vania~
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    Originally posted by natasa2012 View Post
    Another boring day in Jakarta :-(
    why boring? weekend is coming!!

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  • vania~
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    Originally posted by Happyman View Post
    I think it's a short-term/long-term thing. If you talk about the long term, most guys are looking for a dependable, honest, caring, beautiful woman to spend the night with, every night, for the rest of their lives. If you talk about the short term, most guys are looking for... a woman to spend the night with.

    Oh, I assumed that by "mistress" you just meant someone to sleep with, not someone to sleep with other than his wife. That is a different topic, and will have me retracting my statement and staying far away... I love my wife and the life we have together, and I shouldn't comment on other people's marriages.
    im looking for a long term guy in online dating, because in real life i dont have much time to socialize with many guys.. and yeah mostly the men in the online dating that i found are only looking for sex and they has wifes or girlfriends. and good thing, i found out that they has wifes or girlfriends.. that was crazy, i dont wanna messed up somebody's relationship.

    Originally posted by Happyman View Post
    I don't know you, Vania, but beauty can be more than "looks". Back when I was unattached, there was more than one girl that I initially thought of as "average" or "plain" when I first met them... but later saw as beautiful. It was in their smile and laugh, the way they treated others, a type of grace that is not seen in the body but rather the heart/soul. I know that sounds cheesy as hell, but I mean it. They went from not special to very attractive, and stayed that way. The opposite is also true, a beautiful body attached to an ugly heart won't look appealing for long.

    So you don't have to miss out on anything, you want a random to sleep with, I'd be surprised if you couldn't find one. You want a long term guy, if you are a beautiful person, he'll probably see it (though you still might not be a match).
    i do understand that happyman, i just havent met someone that see me that im 'beautiful'.. i really need to go out see new people more often LOL...

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  • natasa2012
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    Another boring day in Jakarta :-(

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  • Happyman
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    Originally posted by Phalange View Post
    so what are the odds of not beautiful woman getting into a long term relationship? hahaha *silently crying*
    I don't know you, Vania, but beauty can be more than "looks". Back when I was unattached, there was more than one girl that I initially thought of as "average" or "plain" when I first met them... but later saw as beautiful. It was in their smile and laugh, the way they treated others, a type of grace that is not seen in the body but rather the heart/soul. I know that sounds cheesy as hell, but I mean it. They went from not special to very attractive, and stayed that way. The opposite is also true, a beautiful body attached to an ugly heart won't look appealing for long.

    So you don't have to miss out on anything, you want a random to sleep with, I'd be surprised if you couldn't find one. You want a long term guy, if you are a beautiful person, he'll probably see it (though you still might not be a match).

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  • Phalange
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    Originally posted by Happyman View Post
    I think it's a short-term/long-term thing. If you talk about the long term, most guys are looking for a dependable, honest, caring, beautiful woman to spend the night with, every night, for the rest of their lives. If you talk about the short term, most guys are looking for a woman to spend the night with.
    so what are the odds of not beautiful woman getting into a long term relationship? hahaha *silently crying*

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